24 March 2014

Too Much Time on Your Hands?

Recently, someone commented that I have too much time on my hands.


Once I got over the sense of incredulity, I got to thinking about it.  Do I? Or does it just seem to those ignorant of my reality to be the case? Bingo!

So I am taking the time to talk about time.

To be sure, I have no idea what the person meant by their statement.  I asked for an explanation, but was given none.

So, let's start here:
TO EVERYTHING there is a season, and a time for every matter or purpose under heaven: 
Ecclesiastes 3:1 AMP
If indeed there is a time for everything, than having too much time on one's hands is an impossibility, for there would also be a time for doing nothing and doing folly. 

I do not naturally, nor willingly partake in folly.  By its name alone, it is unattractive to me.  I was not, at the time of my critic's comment, doing nothing, so let's see what I do do. (yes, I said it).

I fulfill, on a regular basis, the following roles:

I am a homeschooling, house-husband.  In the area of "bringing home the bacon" or "frying it in the pan", Perla and I have reversed roles.  These reversed roles work for us.  We are both most effective for each other and our family where we are.  I think it's the misunderstanding of this that has caused people over the years to make similar observations.

As a homeschooler, I attend to the education of my child on a daily basis.  I am, at times, the teacher, the teacher's aide, the hall monitor, the librarian and the principal, all at once. (At this moment, I'm also the lunch-lady).

As a house-husband, I do the shopping, the dishes, the cleaning and the cooking.  I organize the family's calendar, seeing to our attendance of church events, soccer practice and games, physical activities and our limited social calendar.

I am a business owner.  I oversee every single aspect of our TWO main businesses; a janitorial service and a maid service, on a personal and professional level.  Additionally, this year sees the start of  a new business venture as well for which I will be responsible on an operational level as well as additional labor.

I am clergy.  Both Perla and I are ordained elders in our fellowship and as such bear the responsibilities of the position.  We are at the church, if our schedule allows, every time the door is open; and sometimes even if our schedule doesn't allow.  We pray. We study the Word.  Sometimes we are called on to teach or preach.  I am on the worship team there as well.

When I can, I make it to the gym or go cycling with Elijah.

I am also an author, of which this blog is a part.

That's what I am doing now. Additionally, the planning stages for what we will be doing in the future also occupy my time.  A major part of that involves intensive social networking and a growth phase in the areas of media and public relations.

I am well aware of what time I spend on what activities.  None of it is wasted.

Indeed, sometimes it seems as if I do not have enough time on my hands.

I do not forget the importance of this verse:

Look carefully then how you walk! Live purposefully and worthily and accurately, not as the unwise and witless, but as wise (sensible, intelligent people), Making the very most of the time [buying up each opportunity], because the days are evil. Therefore do not be vague and thoughtless and foolish, but understanding and firmly grasping what the will of the Lord is.
Ephesians 5:15-17 AMP

Our sole purpose for our lives right now is to bring others to Christ and to see the church united, honoring God.  With that as our goal, we should be busy every moment ~ which I am.

How about you? Are you busy? Or do you have too much time on your hands?

20 March 2014

Throwback Thursday: A Little (about) Fornication

The following post is originally from February, 2010.  It was a part of an ongoing teaching on another blog directed towards new believers.  It dealt with cutting off fellowship with non-believers that would not be healthy to the walk of a new believer.  We are speaking specifically about FELLOWSHIP, not just your run of the mill, everyday, interactions.

As we continue this look at those we should not fellowship with as believers, let's remember one thing. This blog was initially intended for the new believer, in order to disciple them in the way. I acknowledge that not every believer will have freedom from all sinful behavior that is active in their lives at conversion.

That being said, the following posts may convict you of sin. You may find that you yourself are on the 'no fellowship list'. Do not be afraid. If you are truly seeking after God, He will honor your hunger and set you free. Repent of sin that is revealed and ask Him to change your heart. Set your affections on Him.

I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators: Yet not altogether with the fornicators of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then must ye needs go out of the world. But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat. For what have I to do to judge them also that are without? do not ye judge them that are within? But them that are without God judgeth. Therefore put away from among yourselves that wicked person.
1 Corinthians 5:9-13 KJV

Remember first what Paul says in verse 10. His instructions refer to the fellowship of believers with believers that fall into the categories he is about to list; not unbelievers. That is not to say that you should be hanging out in the bars with the drunks of this world, but the danger lies in yoking yourself with one who calls themselves by the Name of Christ and yet is still in sin in these areas.

We are not to associate with fornicators. A fornicator is anyone who has illicit sexual relationships. Any sexual activity outside the bonds of marriage is fornication. Sexual activity by a married person outside of their own marriage covenant is adultery. Adultery is fornication. If you are in sin in this area, you should repent quickly, be forgiven and not continue in sin.

We are not to fellowship with those who are covetous; who have an inordinate desire or greed.

We are not to fellowship with extortionists. An extortionist is one who obtains gain from others through manipulation, abuse of their authority or oppression; a thief and a robber.

We are not to be yoked with idolaters. Idolatry is when you place something else above the place of Christ. If someone is devoted to someone or something so much that it takes the place of God, they are in sin in this area. The worship of Mary above the place of Christ as mediator for us is idolatry. The Word says that we have only one mediator and that that mediator is Christ.

We are not to associate with believers who are railers. A railer is one who uses profanity, is verbally abusive, slanderous, a gossip, hateful and hurtful in their speech. If you know a believer like this - stay away. You will be like who you spend time with.

Steer clear of drunkards. That one should be self-explanatory. A drunkard is anyone who drinks habitually; even if they refer to it as social drinking. I know of whole churches where this is acceptable. I personally don't drink at all. My wife doesn't drink. We don't believe that believers should drink at all. To me, drinking is no less than idolatry. Most people I know who drink, do so in order to obtain a certain mental, emotional, or physical state. No beverage can get me into a better mental, physical or emotional state than being in the presence of the Holy Spirit. In fact, the Bible tells us to be drunk in the Spirit! Cool! I have been drunk in the Spirit many times - three days ago, in fact!

If you have found yourself on this list, remember the admonishment at the beginning of the post: Repent. Do it quickly.